A Prayer for the Victims of the Syrian Conflict
We pray for those damaged by the fighting in Syria.
To the wounded and injured:
Come Lord Jesus.
To the terrified who are living in shock:
Come Lord Jesus
To the hungry and homeless, refugee and exile:
Come Lord Jesus
To those bringing humanitarian aid:
Give protection Lord Jesus
To those administering medical assistance:
Give protection Lord Jesus.
To those offering counsel and care:
Give protection Lord Jesus.
For all making the sacrifice of love:
Give the strength of your Spirit
and the joy of your comfort.
In the hope of Christ we pray. Amen.
-Church of England Prayers for Syria
The Latest from the Rev. Mark B. Pendleton, Rector of Christ Church in Exeter, New Hampshire
Wednesday, September 9, 2015
Thursday, September 3, 2015
We Make this Road: Begin this Journey with others
Next week we begin as a community to spend the next year reading Brian McLaren's We Make this Road by Walking. Each Wednesday from 11 a.m. to noon in the Chapel we will gather, and we will stay in contact with folks through this blog and on FaceBook.
The authors begins with this invitation:"What we all want it pretty simple, really. We want to be alive. To feel alive. Not to just exist but to thrive, to live out loud, walk tall, breathe free. We want to be less lonely, less exhausted, less conflicted or afraid... more awake, more grateful, more energized and purposeful."
The first part of the journey will be to explore the story of creation.
Our first texts will be Genesis 1:1-2:3 Psalm 19:1-4 Matthew 6:25-34. As we prepare, consider this question: What is the most beautiful place you have ever seen? What was so special about it?
The authors begins with this invitation:"What we all want it pretty simple, really. We want to be alive. To feel alive. Not to just exist but to thrive, to live out loud, walk tall, breathe free. We want to be less lonely, less exhausted, less conflicted or afraid... more awake, more grateful, more energized and purposeful."
The first part of the journey will be to explore the story of creation.
Our first texts will be Genesis 1:1-2:3 Psalm 19:1-4 Matthew 6:25-34. As we prepare, consider this question: What is the most beautiful place you have ever seen? What was so special about it?
Wednesday, August 19, 2015
Sermon from August 16: The Flesh and Blood of Jesus’ Ever-widening Family
I want to start off
this morning by playing a version of word association. I will say just one word, and you – don’t shout
out – think of an image that comes to mind when you hear it. Ready?
The word is: family.
After four Sunday in a row talking about the Bread of Life, Jesus offends and confusing many by saying: “Unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you have no life in you. Those who eat my flesh and drink my blood abide in me, and I in them.”
The lectionary seems stuck these weeks: who would not want a break from John’s mystical and confounding words of Jesus.
As I remind each youth confirmation class, Christians believe in resurrection and not reincarnation. We do not believe that we return to this earth and live another life. We believe in something more – harder to imagine. We believe that as Christ lived, died and was resurrected, so too will we. We believe in the communion of saints, that those who have gone before are still a part of our lives.
Eternity. Forever. Beyond time.
What came to
mind? The family you grew up with, the
family you began with a spouse, your colleagues at work or circle of friends
that form a family unit and support system for you when you need it most? We
often use the word family to describe what we have here when we are at our best:
a church family. Or did you picture an idealized family? The whole picket fence and 2.3 children so-called
life. Jesus himself also asked a similar
question: “Who is my mother and who are my brothers?"
As we have gone
about our daily lives here, enjoying this beautiful time of the year in New
England, millions and millions of people have been on the move around the world. Refugees.
Migrants. Running through the Chunnel linking France and England. Languishing
in refugee camps. Crossing the sea in over-crowded boats. This year over 2,000 souls have perished in
the Mediterranean. The humanitarian disaster in Syria continuing to unfold with
millions of people displaced. They come from South Sudan, Myanmar, Iraq and
Afghanistan.
To me, one of the
ways our faith impacts the way we live in the world is considering what goes
through our minds when we see or read stories of these humanitarian crises
around the world. Do we go numb or turn away? Do we analyze, rationalize, and
politicize? Are we moved: moved to prayer, concern, generosity, action?
We should care
about the plight of refugees and migrants because the God of the Bible cares
about them. Men, women and children pick up with few positions and flee. Half
the world’s refugees and children.
Children help grandparents. No one is left behind if at all possible.
What I’m getting at
is this: What do some birth parents say to their children and grown children
say to parents, siblings tell other siblings of the reason their bond is so
visceral, complicated, deep and tight? “You are my flesh and blood.” You are family.
After four Sunday in a row talking about the Bread of Life, Jesus offends and confusing many by saying: “Unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you have no life in you. Those who eat my flesh and drink my blood abide in me, and I in them.”
The lectionary seems stuck these weeks: who would not want a break from John’s mystical and confounding words of Jesus.
Four Sundays ago it
started with the feeding of the 5,000.
That’s how it began… “There is a boy who had five barley loaves and two
fish. Jesus took the loaves, and when he had given thanks, he distributed them
to those who were seated; so also the fish, as much as they wanted.”
Out of scarcity… abundance.
What began with little, ended up with much. All present where fed, no one went
without. A foretaste of the ‘all you can
eat’ heavenly banquet. There was enough. It is the best of the gospel. It is a message
and image that confront our world, where millions go hungry each day. Those
blessed with more than enough should share with those without.
One the church groups
that we saw on one our recent mission trips to Cuba, who also were delivering much needed water purification
systems to this repressed country, puts a sign over each system that says “Agua viva… Living water.” Clean water as sacrament: out outward sign of
inner life, health and goodness.
For years I lived
just north of St. Augustine, Florida. Known as America’s first city, it was
settled by the Spanish in the 1500’s, it is known today for its beaches, and
typical Florida tourist attractions.
There is also a park that pays homage to the legend of the Fountain of
Youth. The story is that explorer Ponce
de Leon came to the Florida searching for the mythical spring that if one would
drink from it or bathe in its waters that one youth would be restored and
perhaps they might never die.
But when does
searching for fountains of youth become both an obsession and distraction? Each day there is at least one truth: we are
a day older.
When Jesus said:
“Those who eat my flesh and drink my blood have eternal life, and I will raise
them up on the last day,” he certainly was not saying that his followers would
never grow old and die.
God has a very different
take on the Fountain of Youth and the makeup of family.
In an encounter
with Jesus, Nicodemus learned that to be born again or born from above does not
require us to return to our mother’s womb. We don’t have to rewind the clock of
our lives and start all over to make things right. We don’t need anti-aging creams, supplements,
plastic surgery and Botox to make us feel alive.
So if anyone is in
Christ, there is a new creation: everything old has passed away; see everything
has become new! (2 Corinthians 5:17)
Christ makes everything new, not young again.
As we think about
the eternal life Jesus promised, a beginning place is not to hope and pray that
time stands still. A better way is seeing how eternal life is already present
and unfolding before us. Jesus spoke of eternity as opposed to immortality, and
there is a big difference.
As I remind each youth confirmation class, Christians believe in resurrection and not reincarnation. We do not believe that we return to this earth and live another life. We believe in something more – harder to imagine. We believe that as Christ lived, died and was resurrected, so too will we. We believe in the communion of saints, that those who have gone before are still a part of our lives.
Eternity. Forever. Beyond time.
And the place to
begin to understanding that mind-bending promise of an idea, will be for
Christians, to take some bread and some wine, do as Jesus did: take, bless,
break and share, and become one with Christ.
A saint of the church once said, (Augustine) when he held up the
bread and the cup before the gathered – in the same way we do at the altar
today -- behold who you are; may we become what we receive.
Behold who you are. You
and I are God’s family. Flesh and blood. God’s own. Flawed and sinful. Blessed
and forgiven.
Monday, August 10, 2015
Sermon from August 9: Taste and see that the Lord is Good
Picture for a
moment that stereotyped version of a mother or grandmother whose cure for anything
and everything is to offer up an overflowing plate of food. A large bowl of hot
Chicken soup, a pile of pasta, mouth watering cookies, meatloaf and gravy. The food comes with the invitation: “eat..eat.”
Comfort food. Soul food.
Food is what we
bring to the homes of those living through times of loss and grief. Casseroles
are brought to families too preoccupied to care and cook for themselves – when
trips to the hospital take all the time and energy there is to spare. Casserole as sacrament: an outside and
visible sign of concern, connection, caring and love.
Years back you may
remember the quite successful cottage industry of books of collected positive
stories of inspiration called: Chicken
Soup for the Soul. I admit that I
drew heavily from those series of books in my early years a preacher. There are now over 250 books in the series, including
Chicken Soup for the Pet-lover Soul and Chicken Soup for the Teenage soul. The
authors hit on something true: things that are good and lift us up are as good
as chicken soup given to us when we most need it… from someone who cares.
I was speaking with
a college professor recently who commented that a common, known language of
what could be called the Judeo-Christian worldview – that had been assumed 20, 30,
or 40 years ago from students -- no longer prevails. The baby-boomers and the parents of the
1960’s by in large did not lean on their children to attend church like they
had and the battles of prayer in public school are long behind us. We live in a
different time. So when great works of literature are cracked open in
classrooms today, a teacher cannot assume that students have the same common
knowledge of religious and cultural language to draw upon.
An example could be
the expression: “manna from heaven.”
I looked up the
phrase “manna from heaven” in the Urban Dictionary, which is a crowd-sourced
online dictionary of slang words.
Definition: “A gift that is usually given unexpectedly to someone for
free, that is a big deal to the person receiving. It's mostly used for the sake
of food.” The example given is a person
describing a great tasting strawberry as “manna from heaven.”
My question is this:
What if you had no idea of what manna from heaven meant? Would this gospel
story mean the same or make any sense?
In today’s gospel again,
Jesus says I am the bread of life. And then he continues. “Your ancestors ate the manna in the
wilderness, and they died. This is the bread that comes down from heaven, so
that one may eat of it and not die.”
The people who
heard these words of Jesus had a common heritage and language. They knew the
back-story. Having been raised with the
Exodus story, hearing how God sent Manna from heaven to Moses and the
Israelites to sustain them on their journey to the Promised Land, the people
were ready and wired to look heavenward for signs that God was with them, that
God would deliver and save them if they would keep the commandments.
In times of
scarcity and hardship, manna came from above to give what was needed to carry
on for another day. The manna, having been collected from the ground after the
morning dew, had to be eaten then and there, less it spoil.
The prophet Elijah,
in the first reading from 1 Kings -- hiding and fleeing for his life -- was
touched twice by an angel who told him: “get up and eat.” God had provided yet again, this time with a
cake baked on hot stones and a jar of water.
Get up and eat, otherwise the journey will be too much for you.
The language and
image continues in the psalm. “Taste and
see that the Lord is good, happy are they who trust in him.”
Language common to
our faith is to say: the Lord will provide. When we find ourselves in the
wilderness, alone, unsure, down – all those normal parts of being human.
When Jesus says I
am the living bread that came down from heaven, he rightly reminds those
willing to follow him that the good things of life do not merely fall from
above.
Jesus was saying to
those who were ready to hear and see: focus. Focus on what is before you. Tend
to it. Not the fantasy or parallel or hidden life of dreams and shadows, but a
blessed life of openness, light and truth.
I am before and with you.
Come closer.
Imagine a relationship with God that is intimate and real – of this world and
not just the next.
It was Robert Louis
Stevenson, who gave us Treasure Island and Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, who said:
“The best things are nearest: breath in your nostrils, light in your eyes,
flowers at your feet, duties at your hand, the path of God just before you.
Then do not grasp at the stars, but do life's plain common work as it comes
certain that daily duties and daily bread are the sweetest things of life.”
God knows -- we
spend a great deal of mental and spiritual energy and anguish overcoming and
understanding our past. Past decisions, choices, mistakes, wrong turns and
dead-ends. We too need strength for the life before us. It is with this in mind
that the angels tell us also: “get up and eat, otherwise the journey will be
too much.
Taste and see that
Lord is good. Each and every day. May we live into this promise.
August 9, 2015
11 Pentecost, Year B
The Rev. Mark B. Pendleton
Christ Church, Exeter
Sermon from August 2
Perhaps you
have heard a version of this parable wrapped inside a well-worn joke:
There was a
preacher who fell in the ocean and he couldn't swim. When a boat came by, the captain
yelled, "Do you need help, sir?" The preacher calmly said "No,
God will save me." A little later, another boat came by and a fisherman
asked, "Hey, do you need help?" The preacher replied again, "No
God will save me." Eventually the preacher drowned & went to heaven.
The preacher asked God, "Why didn't you save me?" God replied,
"Fool, I sent you two boats!"
Replace the
main character and the setting and you get a similar lesson: we do not always see
in the moment where God is acting, when Christ is most present and how the Holy
Spirit is moving throughout our lives. We are prone to misread we mistake
silence for absence and activity as substance.
God knows, we are human, and we struggle with setting priorities,
shifting through life’s many choices and knowing what really matters most.
Where and how do we spend our time, energy, resources, worries, passions, and
doubts? We hunger to be fed and filled, yet all around us are temptations and
distraction to experience the thrill and trend of the moment – the latest and
updated version of whatever that we convince ourselves that we must have.
Part of
what we do when we gather to pray and worship is to redirect our very real hunger
away from what is fleeting and perishable towards what is everlasting and eternal.
Or at the very least, teach us and remind us to know the difference – and to
learn where to look for the true bread of life.
Many
believe that the purpose of the entire gospel of John can be found near the
very end in the 20th chapter vs. 30-31: Now Jesus did many other
signs in the presence of his disciples, which are not written in this book. But
these are written so that you may come to believe that Jesus is the Messiah,
the Son of God, and that through believing you may have life in his name.
So when we
hear passages about signs from God: take note.
Over four
weeks we are camping out in the 6th chapter of John. John speaks a
different kind of language from the other gospels. It cares less about sequential history than
he does with painting a larger more expansive understanding.
We get from
John the great “I am” statements from Jesus:
I am the light of the world
I am the door
I am the good shepherd
I am the resurrection and the life
I am the way, the truth, and the life
I am the true vine
And, as we
heard again this morning and will hear again next Sunday: I am the bread of
life
The 23 times Jesus uses these I am statements in John links Jesus to the
God who spoke to Moses in the Exodus story. God said to Moses, "I AM WHO I
AM".
Hear Eugene Peterson’s translation in the Message of this passage: Jesus
says: “Don’t waste your energy striving for perishable food like that. Work for
the food that sticks with you, food that nourishes your lasting life, food the
Son of Man provides.”
How are we doing in reading the signs around us and deep within us ? Are
we on the right course of knowing the difference between that lasts and what
fades away?
In
anticipating of our many anniversary festivities next month, I have been
reading our parish history and marvel and the foresight of the founders of this
church. Two Academy students, William Waters and Frederick Thompson, walking
through the cold on Christmas morning in 1864 to Epping to receive the Bread of
Life of Holy Communion. The tireless Caroline Harris, in whose memory our
parish hall is named. It is written that she “limited her diet and her comforts”
and wrote for friends around New England to raise support for the first church
building. They began something that did not fade away. It took root in this
community. They and other founders saw a need, sacrificed and contributed, and
planted something that lasts today and will live on into the future. When we
support the work of a congregation through energy, time and money, we connect with
the kinds of choices that Jesus set out to all those who came to him looking
for food to eat.
For today
then, let me end with a different take of the joke without the punch line.
There was a
person who fell into the ocean couldn't swim. When a boat came by, the captain
yelled, "Do you need help?" The person said: Well, actually I do. I’m
afraid, uncertain, far from home. I lose my way sometimes. Get off track. I am
at times lonely, insecure and uncertain.
I fail to see the good things and decent people around me. I need to
love and care more, worry and consume less.
And the
good news is that the person who fell into the ocean didn’t have to go to
heaven to learn this less. God sends us
boats. A lot of them. And lifelines. And
wake-up calls. And second and third
changes, and many more.
And God in
Jesus offers us food – the good kind – that feds our soul.
August 2, 2015
10 Pentecost, Year B
The Rev. Mark B. Pendleton
Exeter, NH
Tuesday, July 14, 2015
Preparing to Commemorate 50th Anniversary of the martyrdom of N.H.'s Jonathan Daniels
Taken from jonathandaniels50.org Click here to go to link
The year 2015 marks the 50th anniversary of the martyrdom of Jonathan Daniels, who was assassinated on August 20, 1965 at the height of the Civil Rights movement. Jonathan, a seminarian at the Episcopal Theological School in Cambridge, Massachusetts, went south that summer answering the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr.’s call for clergy to help register black voters. While there, Jonathan was arrested along with a number of Civil Rights workers. Upon being released from jail, he along with several others headed to a store to buy a cold drink. As they approached, a local deputy sheriff, Tom Coleman, raised his gun and fired. Jonathan shoved SNCC (Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee) worker Ruby Sales out of the way taking the fatal shot himself.
Jonathan grew up in Keene, New Hampshire where he worshiped at St. James Episcopal Church. To honor him and the beliefs he stood and died for, the Jonathan Daniels Commemoration Committee is spearheading the planning of activities throughout the year locally, nationally and internationally to commemorate his life and death. The committee has adopted a theme for the year based on the biblical passage from Isaiah 6:8 “I heard the voice of the Lord saying whom shall I send? Who will go for us? Then said I, Here Am I, Send Me.” The goal is to have every person touched by Jonathan’s example to do one thing to make the world a better place to live.
This website is intended to provide a place to inform visitors of the various commemoration activities planned around the US and the globe. Visit the Listing of Events and Calendar tabs to view the events that are being planned. If your organization is planning a commemoration event that you want to include, please submit the details on the Contact tab. To assist in your planning these three dates stand out. He was born on March 20, 1939. He was assassinated on August 20, 1965 in Hayneville, Alabama. The Episcopal Church celebrates his life and work annually on August 14th. He has been named a saint and martyr of the Episcopal Church and with the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. is one of only two Americans listed in the Memorial Book of Heroes and Martyrs at the Canterbury Cathedral in England. A sculpture of Jonathan will soon be displayed on the Human Rights Porch at the National Cathedral in Washington, D.C.
This website is intended to provide a place to inform visitors of the various commemoration activities planned around the US and the globe. Visit the Listing of Events and Calendar tabs to view the events that are being planned. If your organization is planning a commemoration event that you want to include, please submit the details on the Contact tab. To assist in your planning these three dates stand out. He was born on March 20, 1939. He was assassinated on August 20, 1965 in Hayneville, Alabama. The Episcopal Church celebrates his life and work annually on August 14th. He has been named a saint and martyr of the Episcopal Church and with the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. is one of only two Americans listed in the Memorial Book of Heroes and Martyrs at the Canterbury Cathedral in England. A sculpture of Jonathan will soon be displayed on the Human Rights Porch at the National Cathedral in Washington, D.C.
Thursday, July 9, 2015
A Symbol of Hate
What has become known as the Confederate flag is coming down outside the state house in South Carolina only a few weeks after the massacre at Emanuel A.M.E. Church in Charleston took nine souls.
In addition, the dean of the Washington National Cathedral has announced that they will be removing two stained glass windows, installed in 1953, that honor Confederate generals Stonewall Jackson and Robert E. Lee that include the Confederate flag. You can read more Click here
It still amazing to me how the Civil Way continues to find its way into modern American life and discourse when it comes to matters of race. It also does not surprise me that that the Episcopal Diocese and Bishop of South Carolina -- for now -- has been largely successful in S.C. courts in separating from the national church and keeping -- for now -- much of their church property. Is there something in the water in S.C., so to speak, where the impulse to reject and go it alone is stronger than elsewhere? Perhaps.
As you can see from my previous blog about the placement of the American flag in our church sanctuary, we too have been thinking about the power and placement of symbols. So far I detect that our very Anglican "middle way" of having the flag in the narthex seems about right for now.
My hope in the Confederate flag debate is, like so many other reactions to horrendous events, it does become a replacement or a filler to a change of heart and mind. Racism in America, and throughout the world, is one of the greatest sins against God because it cuts to the core of rejecting God's creation itself. Humanity is created in the Divine image. No one race is greater or less in God's eyes. Period. Always.
Racism is an expression of our great temptation to distort our own fear and weakness and turn it back onto someone else.
"God is not done with us yet" is as true today as always. In memory of the nine souls who welcomed a stranger in their midst as Jesus inspired them to do, I pray and hope that some minds and hearts have been moved and changed over this last month.
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