The Latest from the Rev. Mark B. Pendleton, Rector of Christ Church in Exeter, New Hampshire
Tuesday, April 29, 2014
50 Days of Easter: Fabulous Idea
Click here to go to this wonderful website.
Lent for many of us can be a grind. Yet we endure for the "prize" -- Easter Day. The best day of a year for a Christian. The feeling is unmistakable. Yet it is easy to forget that Eastertide runs longer than Lent. 50 vs. 40 days.
These light-filled days are truly valued not just for the spring-like weather that lifts our spirits, but for the stories of the risen Christ meeting his followers where they were: living their lives. They were, as we are, flawed, promising, doubting, fearful and faithful.
I encourage you to visit 50 Days of Fabulous each morning and continue read and pray through these days.
Monday, April 21, 2014
My Easter Top Seven List
My
Easter list of seven reasons Easter is a core of our Christian faith – or at
least something you should think about.
1. “Proclaim it don’t explain
it.”
2. It’s not about emptiness,
it’s about presence.
3. There is room for doubt.
4. It’s not about you.
5. It’s about you.
6. Believing in the
Resurrection is a gift and a choice.
7. Easter makes all the
difference.
Robert
Frost’s The Road Not Taken...
Two
roads diverged in a wood, and I — I took the one less traveled by, and that has
made all the difference.
Lastly…
it’s about joy.
Thursday, April 17, 2014
Easter Strong
I
do not know where it all started.
Was it ABC Evening New’s ongoing upbeat series 'America Strong' that
highlights ordinary people doing positive and inspiring things? Moments after
the horrendous bombings near the finish line of the Boston Marathon last year
college students were making t-shirts with ‘Boston Strong’ splashed across the
front in bold letters. ‘Boston Strong’ began out of a response to a senseless
violent act of hatred and cowardice and expressed a knee-jerk, heart-felt response
of vigilant defiance that connected with a city on edge and the entire nation.
At first, proceeds of anything with the ‘Boston Strong’ logo were directed to
charities aiding the victims, but since the phrase was never copywrited there
is no way to know today if all the shirts and trinkets on sale in the Boston
area are going to their intended beneficiaries. That is unfortunate. The desire to stand with the victims
and the city of Boston spread up interstate 95 where I live to New Hampshire’s
commuting outer ring: I have heard ‘Seacoast Strong’ on the radio as groups
organize outreach events at the anniversary of the bombings.
My
intent here is not to denigrate or be cynical of what began as a natural response
for a people in a nation with 9/11 forever in our DNA. Far from it. I see this
generous and spontaneous use of the phrase ‘Boston Strong’ as a way for us to understand
and experience another movement of horror, loss, anguish that the Cross on Good
Friday represents as believers move towards Easter Day.
The
chronology of events in Jerusalem is the focus of the church during these three
holy days of the Triduum -- Jesus’
betrayal, trial, beating, crucifixion, death and burial. A whirlwind of events
and cascade of emotions for Jesus himself and his followers. It is not hard for
us to imagine how his friends must have felt. The gospels speak of their
scattering for fear that they too may meet the same end. Yet on the third day,
we point to the events that followed the discovering of the empty tomb. In his
death and resurrection, Jesus became the Christ for those who could not fully
believe when he walked among them. Jesus became the Christ for those who would
never talk with him, meet him along the roadside, and watch him heal and teach.
The Risen Christ becomes the
ultimate phoenix moment of flight from the ashes. The cosmic battle of evil and good plays out in an event
that is joined by followers through the centuries.
We
preach that in the Resurrection of Christ, God’s victory over sin and death is
complete. The first step of belief
can begin to radiate in our daily lives.
In the face of evil then and now, hope wins. Light is stronger than
darkness. After amazing defeats in our lives, there is by God’s grace a road
map ahead for life. Love wins.
So
Boston, I join your valiant response with a great truth: Jesus Strong. Christ Strong. Easter Strong. Alleluia,
Alleluia!
Wednesday, April 9, 2014
Crosses Hurt like Hell: Preparing for Holy Week
Last
Sunday in Children’s Chapel here at Christ Church in Exeter, we talked about the gospel story of the day of
Jesus raising his friend Lazarus from the dead. I focused on that one short
line that is available to all who wish to commit a verse of the Bible to
memory: “Jesus wept.” Or “Jesus cried.” I asked then children when and if they
have ever cried. They all said yes, of course. Then I asked: what makes you
cry? There were examples galore.
When I get tackled playing a sport. When my brother hits me. Many of the children connected pain with
tears. Others sadness. The death
of a beloved pet. And then one boy
said that he sometimes cries when he laughs.
We’ve all done that, haven’t we? We get laughing so hard and fully
and for so long that tears literally start coming out our eyes. Why the
connection with the pain and loss of sadness that brought tears to the eyes of
Jesus at the death of his friend – and the quick turn of tears to
laughter? There is a very thin line
isn’t there, between good times and bad, health and sickness, up and down,
employed and unemployed, together and alone, content and miserable. In the blink of an eye, in a moment, on
a day, things can change.
That
is what Palm Sunday/Passion Sunday feels like to me. Even our use of the word passion is two edged and
double-sided. Only in the church
does it point to the suffering of Jesus and the way it is used today – the
strong desire or compelling emotion towards another.
The
triumphant, joyful, expectant entry of Jesus into Jerusalem with the waving of
palms to signal a new day, and then the reality hits. The betrayal, trial, denials, torture and death. In the past these two events actually
had their own Sundays: we would have read the Passion story last Sunday and
only deal with the Palm part of that story today. Both converge. These two mixed yet related messages and events are a lot
take in. The reading and listening to the Passion can be overwhelming and
exhausting.
The
line between sadness and joy is thin, tenuous, real and ever-present.
I
have previously mentioned that I am a reluctant Twitter user because I know
that being a leader in the church today means that one needs to at least know about
social media and how people are communicating with one another. So I have a Twitter account, as the
does the parish. The pop singer Katie Perry has 52 million followers
– (people who receive what she communicates -- she’s very popular) – I have 73.
I don’t take it personally.
I
do I follow Jesus Christ on Twitter.
You can find him @JesusofNaz316 with the description “Carpenter who
hangs out with fisherman, alcoholics and prostitutes: I ascended. Remember?” The thousands
of Jesus tweets are often edgy and provacative, sometimes heretical if not hysterical. I was certainly glad to see that Jesus
of Naz follows God on Twitter: @almightygod. Based on those associated with
this social media project, I’m guessing the author is of an Episcopal/Anglican
persuasion. You can just
tell.
The
entry for this past week caught my eye. Twitter Jesus wrote: “Crosses hurt like
hell.” Funny, provocative, profane
– yes. Thinking about the post more: profound and true.
The
one-time dean of Grace Cathedral in San Francisco wrote that “everything that
happens to Christ happens to us.”
Birth, wilderness, temptation, loneliness, joy, loss, suffering and yes,
in time, death.
And
yes, crosses hurt. The literal crosses that were used to end the lives of so
many living under Roman occupation were horrendous. Any attempt to lend the scene
of a crucifixion of Jesus any air of historical accuracy by Hollywood is either
gory to the extreme that it can cause the moviegoer to avert their eyes or to
the other end to over-sentimentalize or sugar coat what a terrible way to die
and a scandalous beginning of a new faith.
For
you and me as followers of Jesus – not the Twitter JesusofNas316 – but the
compassionate face of a loving God who lived in and blessed our world – we know
that crosses hurt. The crosses of
illness, injustice, divorce, addiction, depression, the death of a loved one --
they hurts like hell. Hell being that place in our tradition, in our lives and imaginations
where it can seem that God is out of reach: silent and powerless. What is hell?
Often time it is believing that God is nowhere to be seen. It’s just us
swimming alone through the universe of unknowing. That is not what God promised
us.
Palm
and Passion Sunday all wrapped up into one remind us of a truth that is right under
our nose and in the air around us.
The crosses of our lives are many times a means to an end. And I believe
they are an end to a means – intended to loop us back around to kind of life
God desires for us. Crosses can
teach us to trust. Pain and tears can and do bleed into laughter. Joy and laughter
get interrupted and upended by tears.
Wednesday, April 2, 2014
Stumbling and Falling
Throughout
this Lent I have been reading with a keen eye the daily offerings by Franciscan
Richard Rohr. So much good stuff
here. I was particularly moved and
impacted by his April 1 meditation called “Stumbling and Falling.”
Sooner or later, if you are
on any classic “spiritual schedule,” some event, person, death, idea, or
relationship will enter your life that you simply cannot deal with, using your
present skill set, your acquired knowledge, or your strong willpower.
Spiritually speaking, you will be, you must be, led to the edge of your own
private resources. At that point, you will stumble over a necessary stumbling
stone, as Isaiah calls it (Isaiah 8:14). You will and you must “lose” at
something. This is the only way that Life-Fate-God-Grace-Mystery can get you to
change, let go of your egocentric preoccupations, and go on the further and
larger journey.
We must stumble and fall, I
am sorry to say. We must be out of the driver’s seat for a while, or we will
never learn how to give up control to the Real Guide. It is the necessary
pattern. Until we are led to the limits of our present game plan, and find it
to be insufficient, we will not search out or find the real source, the deep
well, or the constantly flowing stream.
The Gospel was able to accept
that life is tragic, but then graciously added that we can survive and will
even grow from this tragedy. This is the great turnaround! It all depends on
whether we are willing to see down as up; or as Jung put it, that “where you
stumble and fall, there you find pure gold.” Lady Julian of Norwich said it
even more poetically: “First there is the fall, and then we recover from the
fall. Both are the mercy of God!”
When
I was young I would hear the urban legend that suggested that if, during a
dream, you actually reached the bottom of the cliff, mountain, or building that
you were falling off of – that you would cease to breathe, have a heart attack
and die. Imagine: even in a dream you could die! Scary
stuff for kids camping out and telling ghost and other horror stories. Over the
years though I realized that there is a lot of falling in dreams. My dreams at
least. Usually I jolt myself awake before I hit the ground. But there have been
dreams when I did hit the bottom.
In
life we stumble and fall. We fall hard sometimes. One has to train
one’s mind and spirit to really believe that there is anything good in falling. Falling is tough, embarrassing, sometimes private yet often public, and
it can hurt.
Rohr
reminds us when we need it the most that there is a cosmic helping hand to get
us up off the ground, out of the ditch, back on track and dusted off for
another day. All the clichés and
memories of childhood come flooding back. As it turns out, it is necessary to
get back up on that bike after falling off, to go back to school, work or back into relationship. Life as you knew
it is not over. It is actually only beginning. Good news.
I
commend Rohr’s daily readings. You
can sign up here: Go to Rohr website
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